I would try oral sex.
I'm worried because I have a terrible gag reflex

Answer:

The gag reflex you describe is not that uncommon among women. Some women gag at the mere thought of having a man's penis in their mouth.

Some humans do have what's called a short palate, which means that structurally they really do have a difficult time placing objects deep into their mouth.

This may or may not be your problem; a doctor should be able to evaluate this for you. You can learn to become a skilled oral lover with your guy without having to perform such acts, by the way.

Many men enjoy the sheer pleasure of being licked along the shaft or on the highly sensitive coronal ridge (the ridge around the head), of being teased gently with little bites around the head (be very gentle) and even light sucking on the head.

Another hot spot where you may want to use your tongue is on the frenulum, the point where the head meets the shaft on the underside.

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